observations, feelings, needs, requests ]]

"OFNR model in more detail The four steps, when used in "self-expression" mode, work like this: To observe without evaluation, judgment, or analysis, To express feelings which these observations evoke, To express needs connected with these feelings, (optional) To make a specific request of another person to help meet an unmet need, and to enrich life of everyone involved. Essential in this is that the other person is to be left free to honour or decline the request." Nonviolent Communication Part 1 Marshall Rosenberg http://www.youtube.com/watch... , How to Practice Nonviolent Communication http://www.wikihow.com/Practic... - Thomas Page

pstp psy http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki.... , http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... , http://www.wikihow.com/Help-Pa... , < personal and more level) 1 -26 (political level > http://academicearth.org/courses... - Thomas Page

This is really necessary on so many levels....A harried world creates a lot of stress which can be one contributing factor to miscommunication....this information and education along these lines ,is a needful aspect to help make life more productive for the good of society.<3 thanks for the post. - JB

:) http://www.celebrateempathy.com/Needs-... , http://www.nytimes.com/2011... , sort http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... - Thomas Page

Also: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... - Goran Zec

:) Toward understanding E-prime http://www.nobeliefs.com/eprime... , web-based e-Prime inspector http://www.manifestation.com/neuroto... , Copula (linguistics) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... 6 -7 Signals (Intention clarification?) 6 -9 bdi [ sort I will - will I ? ] - Thomas Page

Summary of Nonviolent Communication http://www.correctcontrarian.com/summary... , Self Compassion as relates to inner/outer communication process ? http://www.self-compassion.org/ , http://www.google.com/search... - Thomas Page

Habitual discourse cultural ? , 9 -15 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... , 11 -12 Pinker ... 11 -19 sort Well what if an entire country or tribe decides it wants to collectively use technology to kill a lot of people? That happens and it is called war. But as Steven Pinker has proven, the physical violence of war -- the number of killed per event -- has been diminishing and continues to diminish over time. I have not made the calculation but I suspect that the kill/killer ratio in war has been dropping and will continue to drop even as the remaining war becomes higher tech. http://www.kk.org/thetech... , 1 -21 Is It Time to Treat Violence Like a Contagious Disease? http://www.wired.com/wiredsc... - Thomas Page

Category:Nonviolence http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... Conflict resolution http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... Ahimsa http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... Four-sides model http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... , Violence as a means of maintaining > unreasoning irrationality ( honor / justice ) , ( sort 4 -28 rigged markets -- greed ? ) , ... ? De radicalization? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... , 4 -28 sort https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... , 5 -13 rationalization cheating hurting sort http://www.youtube.com/watch... , ape feeding reaction to injustice? , 8 -3 http://billmoyers.com/content... - Thomas Page

12 -7 Violence justification systems ... ? [ theological? ego defense complications? evil? madness? cultural (justice honor)? entertainment? game theory? means of favorable commerce? resources? slavery enabler? Crime commissioning?http://www.merriam-webster.com/diction... [ why? Preemptive? Reactive Resolution ? Natural Born Killers ? Reality challenged brainwashees ? 6 -8 http://friendfeed.com/citizen... - Thomas Page

12 -24 Casus belli http://friendfeed.com/citizen... [ 6 -7 sort, thou shall not unless ... - Thomas Page

6 -9 people of the lie ... _ _ _ ... http://friendfeed.com/biograp... signal detection? [[[[[[ 12 -4 Violence Signals Software Language Bugs 2 -5 The Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... - Thomas Page

sort Culture and Self-Expression http://www.apa.org/science... Intercultural competence http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... 6 -16 Violence as mean of avoiding cultural negotiations and negotiation of social contracts ? - Thomas Page

Four Fs (evolution) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... [ (Fighting-Fleeing) utilization for political ... Word ? Brainwashing? Population segments influenced conditioned? Kneejerk righteously indignant ... ? [[[ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... [[[[ signals transducers 7 -25 Eye_for_an_eye http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... 8 -14 Rage http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... - Thomas Page

9 -13 Reaction to NFL player Rice , micro and macro cultural clueless ness ... ? 9 -15 someone should kick the shit out of that guy for doing that!!!! [[[[[[ 9 -27 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... - Thomas Page

Self Identifying as Victim ? , Glorification of defeated adversaries prowess capabilities , worthy opponents , major leaguers against little leaguers ? When the little leaguers score ?Art of War ? Banality ... All is fair in War ... Crimes committed extended timeframes ... Choices to define events? AAA school team beat by B school team [ defining your contest? - Thomas Page

Equations [ sort . . . and he's tellin' me more and more about some useless information supposed to fry my imagination [[ leave it to the pros and overseers , accountable overseers , monitored overseers , media ]]]] < rant ) ( you can't handle the truth { http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... 10 -14 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... - Thomas Page

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Scoring - Winning , Game Theory [[ molehills mountains flipping trickery cheating [[[ pushing their buttons [[[[ reverse psychology [[[[[ crying wolf / playing chicken - Thomas Page

Finite - Infinite - Thomas Page

Violent crime shades of gray [ Violent politics shades of gray [ Violent war shades of gray {{{ Economic crimes (competitions-fouls) shades of gray ~ overlaps ~ {{{{ Arbiters Policing Immunology Eitiology {{{{ signals } - Thomas Page

Unfathomable Fear (source?) atmosphere [ statistics - Thomas Page

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