So I'm in this extremely stupid fight with what was a good friend. She's very angry with me on a regular basis & responds by pretending I don't exist, but refuses to discuss what can be done about it. I'm angry now because it feels terrible when I'm having a bad day and she pointedly ignores me. DIFFICULTY: We work together. I'm her supervisor. So...
Apr 26, 2012
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Steve C, Team Marina
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Now what? I'm just ignoring being ignored, and things are stable and I don't feel so injured. But the natural solution of just drifting apart is not an option, because we work together EVERY SHIFT. I'm trying to change my schedule to get a couple days apart. If anyone has any other thoughts, I'm very interested :-D
- Lo
I think your idea of a couple days apart may be a very, very good one. At the very least, you won't have that stress gnawing at you during that time. After that, I'm a bit lost - I think that if she's not willing to talk and work it out, you're somewhat limited in the things that you can do :(
- Jennifer Dittrich
Sweet! To be clear, I'm not really looking for a solution... outside perspectives are usually helpful. I frequently ask for them from my husband, but conflict is not his thing. He looks like he wants to run away if I so much as describe this situation :-P My little Gandhi!
- Lo
That's a tough one, hopefully time heals all wounds
- Steve C, Team Marina