Lo
How not to say the wrong thing - I approve this article! Helpful if you have a friend in a crisis and want to avoid being an insensitive jerk by accident. Because even if you didn't mean to hurt the feelings of your friend with cancer, it's still shitty if you do. "I had good intentions" seems like a weak excuse sometimes. - http://articles.latimes.com/2013...
People always tell me "it's the thought that counts," but in my experience I am responsible for the outcome of my actions 100% of the time, not just when I get the reaction I'm looking for... just sayin'! - Lo